Consensual Polyamory, Non-Monogamy & Relationships by Design


Diana advocates for choice in how we create our relationships, beyond a one-size-fits-all model. This includes questioning the assumption of monogamy, so that monogamy is stronger as a conscious choice with awareness of alternatives, including Consensual Non-Monogamy and Polyamory. 


Since a 2008 article in the New York Times about her polyamorous relationship (which continues happily today), Diana has been out and proud (very publicly!) as queer, bisexual and polyamorous, meaning that she is nonmonogamous with full honesty and consent of her partners.


Through polyamory, she has found an incredibly rich, fulfilling, and supportive chosen family, and wants to speak out so that others will know that a polyamorous option exists, and to support this and other innovation and choice in love, family, and relationships as a whole in our culture.


In 2007, Diana co-founded New York's monthly Polyamory Cocktail Party, the largest gathering in the world of young adults interested in polyamory, offering an opportunity for like-minded people to connect, offer support, and build community, now in cities across the United States. Diana also co-founded Open Love NY, to support the polyamorous community in NY.


As a lawyer and advocate for those who are polyamorous or consensually nonmonogamous, Diana has been interviewed widely such as for the New York Times, Newsweek, the Washington Post, Current TV, the New York Post, Time Out NY, the Russian Today Show, and on television shows such as The View. In September 2009, Diana appeared on the award winning docu-series MTV True Life "I'm Polyamorous" for a viewership of over twelve million people, mostly young adults. In 2017, Diana appeared as an expert along with Dan Savage, Esther Perel and other luminaries in the documentary Monogamish


Diana teaches many workshops on relationship skills for managing healthy non-monogamous relationships, and offers both private coaching and legal support for polyamorous families


To inquire about an interview or consultation, email contact@dianaadamslaw.net.



For a tremendous resource on managing Jealousy in polyamorous relationships, Diana recommends this affordable online training she conducted with other educators:

Day of Jealousy

Six hours on Jealousy with 13 experts for just $27!!


You will learn…

  • Different ways of looking at and understanding jealousy 
  • Tools, tips, and tricks for effectively battling the Green-Eyed Monster
  • How to stop fearing jealousy and living and loving boldly
  • Ways you can use jealousy to actually, believe it or not, IMPROVE your relationships!

We will also cover...

  • Techniques for understanding and dealing with a jealous partner
  • How to create teamwork in your relationships when it comes to jealousy 
  • Things you can do to make your relationship-world a less jealous one!

Jealousy isn’t just about romantic relationships either, you know! You can experience  jealousy over your children taking up too much of your partner’s time, or become jealous over a co-worker’s promotion, or even a lover’s  favorite hobby could trigger jealous twinges…


So what’s a person to do?


Download the calls and listen in as we make sense of what jealousy  is, how it impacts our lives, and how we can gain the upper hand.  Whether you’re experiencing jealousy on a regular basis, in love with  someone who does, or just afraid that jealousy might rear it’s ugly head, these four calls will give you a wealth of information!


For less than $7 per 90-minute call you’ll receive this amazing resource for information on one of the most  feared emotions in relationships. Begin getting over your fear of  jealousy today!


Featuring:


Call #1:

Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright, Diana Adams, Esq., Len Daley, and Marcia Baczynski


Call #2:

Nina Hartley, Dossie Easton, and Baba Dez Nicols


Call #3:

Dr. Carol Queen, Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol, and Mark Michael Lewis


Bonus Call #4:

Kelly Bryson, Kamala Devi, and Decker Cunov


That's 6 hours of coaching for just $27!